
We’re all looking to live smarter in a world that won't slow down. So take a deep breath, and listen to Airplane Mode. Each week, host Clay Skipper interviews the most thoughtful people we know—business geniuses, writers, fashion designers, comedians, pro athletes, artists, and beyond—and steals their secrets to creativity, success, surviving tech, and staying sane. Brought to you by GQ.
We’re all looking to live smarter in a world that won't slow down. So take a deep breath, and listen to Airplane Mode. Each week, host Clay Skipper interviews the most thoughtful people we know—business geniuses, writers, fashion designers, comedians, pro athletes, artists, and beyond—and steals their secrets to creativity, success, surviving tech, and staying sane. Brought to you by GQ.
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![Thumbnail for "A Master Cave Diver's Secret to Overcoming Fear and Panic [Ep. 12]". Thumbnail for "A Master Cave Diver's Secret to Overcoming Fear and Panic [Ep. 12]".](/_next/image?url=https%3A%2F%2Ff.prxu.org%2F6528%2Fimages%2F09a3e292-8d6c-450c-8434-ee814aa1ad30%2Fuploads_2F1557148245371-8sduhxid5p5-c5cb8b8159c5f9865f7b55f26b7997ee_2FAirplane-Mode-Podcast-logo-3000x3000__281_29.jpg&w=3840&q=75)
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![Thumbnail for "Pete Holmes on "Having Sex With Everything That Is" [Ep. 3]".](/_next/image?url=https%3A%2F%2Ff.prxu.org%2F6528%2Fimages%2F09a3e292-8d6c-450c-8434-ee814aa1ad30%2Fuploads_2F1557148245371-8sduhxid5p5-c5cb8b8159c5f9865f7b55f26b7997ee_2FAirplane-Mode-Podcast-logo-3000x3000__281_29.jpg&w=3840&q=75)
Comedian Pete Holmes—creator and star of HBO show Crashing, podcaster (You Made It Weird), and new author (Comedy Sex God)—has survived some existential crisis and come out the other end with a plan for living joyously. It just takes some work. He also explains why expectations can get in the way of all that joy, why “everything happens for a reason” is B.S., and what he means when he says you should “have sex with everything that is.”
Follow: Clay Skipper: @skipperclay; Pete Holmes: @peteholmes; GQ: @gqmagazine
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