Proxy with Yowei Shaw

Y3 Productions

It's the knot you can't untangle - the problem so unique, it makes you feel alone. But what if you could talk to someone who gets it? On Proxy, we find that person. The perfect stranger to offer the insight to demystify the feelings that shape us all. Yowei Shaw (formerly of NPR’s Invisibilia) and her team of emotional investigators, at your service.

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10hr 40min

The story of someone who suffered alone in secret for 8 years with a problem he was too afraid to Google - and then he stumbled into a support group. In this episode, we dive into the emotional dynamics of support groups with Jason Yu. Why did...

December 3, 202452min 27sec75.54 MB

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March 19, 202517min 59sec50.06 MB

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Conspiracy theories have been gaining traction all the way to the highest seats of power. So, are there emotional dynamics at play that we could understand to be able to do something about it? Last year, Zach Mack’s dad sent him a strange...

March 6, 202535min 46sec93.66 MB

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For as long as she can remember, Nichole Hill has had a complicated relationship with Black history. Then in 2020, she stumbled on a digital archive of pre Civil Rights era Black newspapers and got obsessed with the scandalous stories she found. Our...

February 26, 20251hr 8min97.41 MB

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Basket Case is a new show about mental health. In this episode, host Nicole Kelly (NK) takes on perfectionism, an issue that Yowei has personally struggled with. Plus, some breaking news about Proxy. Listener survey: bit.ly/proxysurvey ...

February 6, 202539min 25sec56.77 MB

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When Yowei heard about the new podcast Little Devils, she was like: finally, someone being honest about a thing we all do. On Little Devils, Jasmin Bauomy interrogates the snap judgments she makes of other people, to find the story behind that...

December 30, 202445min 49sec65.99 MB

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Whoever wins the election, Americans will still want to rip each other's heads off. Social psychologist Jay Van Bavel helps us understand why we should care about polarization, how we got here, and what, if anything, we can do about it. ...

October 29, 202441min 48sec100.33 MB

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We all know that moment - when you feel like you need to cry in front of other people, but don't want to cry. In this episode, Yowei talks to Heather Christle, the author of , to parse what’s happening in that moment, what tears are saying and how...

September 26, 202424min 28sec35.24 MB

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Finally, a campaign reveal. Did we get additional funding to hire Kim for more hours? Plus, some updates for what’s in store for Proxy. Episode credits: Produced by and Kim Nederveen Pieterse Mixed by Proxy is...

September 5, 20248min 5sec32.7 MB

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The final installment of Yowei's quest to solve the mystery of proxy converations. In this episode, Yowei talks to a ritual expert and tries explaining what she's learned about proxy conversations to her mom. From the...

August 21, 202423min 43sec56.93 MB

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Part 3 of Yowei's extremely meta quest to solve the mystery of proxy conversations. In this episode, Yowei learns about psychodrama, a psychotherapy that has similarities to proxy conversations and used to be a dominant modality in the...

August 15, 202439min 41sec95.24 MB

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Part 2 of Yowei's quest to solve the mystery of proxy conversations. Why do they work? How? Can Yowei figure out how to explain the show to people who don't get it? In this episode, Yowei gets advice from actor, comedian, and proxy...

August 6, 202436min 59sec53.26 MB

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Yowei has a problem. She's having trouble explaining the show to people who don't get it. She knows proxy conversations work. But why? How? Part 1 of a 4-part quest to solve the mystery of proxy conversations. Yowei learns about a proxy...

July 24, 20241hr146.36 MB

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Teaser for full-length exclusive bonus episode on Patreon. An in-depth interview with UMass Amherst sociologist and professor Ofer Sharone about the stigma trap that laid off workers can fall into and how the myth of meritocracy impacts even people...

June 7, 20249min 58sec9.58 MB

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With every layoff, there's the blackbox of what's really going on behind the scenes. Why did it go down the way it did? Was it really not about your performance, like they told you? How does the layoff list get made anyway? In our inaugural...

May 23, 202449min 39sec47.68 MB

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Please note: This story contains brief mention of suicidal ideation. If you or someone you know may be considering suicide, contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 9-8-8, or the Crisis Text Line by texting HOME to 741741. ...

May 23, 202441min 54sec56.56 MB

The Layoff Trilogy 1: Layoff Girl

May 22, 202442min 25sec40.73 MB

May 15, 20241min 12sec17.31 MB

The Group That Gets It

December 3, 202452min 27sec

From the episode:

Fidget Podcast - Jason Yu's support group in podcast form for people who compulsively pick their skin, pull their hair, bite their nails
Follow the Fidget Podcast on Instagram
The TLC Foundation - an organization for body-focused repetitive behaviors
The Art of Gathering and How We Show Up: Jason’s book recs for learning how to build community and gather

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