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Conversations with People Who Hate Me

Dylan Marron & TED

Dylan Marron explores what happens when online feuders step out from behind the keyboard and get to know the human on the other side of the screen.

Dylan Marron explores what happens when online feuders step out from behind the keyboard and get to know the human on the other side of the screen.

35hr 28min
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K wrote that she hopes Benjamin is "eaten alive by wild dogs." Dylan connects them on a call.
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It’s 1999, and sixteen years after its original release, a new Star Wars is finally coming. Fans have been camping out in front of theaters across the country just to be the first to see it. The beloved intergalactic saga is set to debut a slew of brand new characters, one of whom is a revolutionary CGI creation named Jar Jar Binks. Whispers begin to spread about big changes coming to the galaxy far, far away – and not everyone’s happy about it. Transcripts for The Redemption of Jar Jar Binks are available at go.ted.com/jarjar
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The Redemption of Jar Jar Binks is a six-part journey through the early internet to understand how one of the first-ever online hate campaigns began, and to right what we got so wrong about Jar Jar the first time around.
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A conversion therapy survivor speaks to the man who ran the conversion therapy clinic he escaped from.
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A man recounts how he came to run a well-known conversion therapy clinic.
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A survivor of conversion therapy recounts his experience.
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Thumbnail for "Episode 43: Throw Your Book In The Fire".
Dylan speaks to a friend who has been openly critical of this project since it began.
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A listener who is scared of the COVID vaccine speaks to Dylan's doctor.
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Dylan tries (and fails) to produce a conversation for a popular artist who is derisively known to some as "balloon guy."
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Two colleagues speak for the first time since their falling-out in a text message.
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A widely recognized actor speaks to a teenager who participated in a misogynistic meme against her.
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When Amanda left a snarky comment in response to a sponsored ad, she assumed she was taking a shot at a gigantic corporate entity who wouldn’t care what she had to say. In reality, it was a small business run by a husband-and-wife team who are trying to make ends meet. Today, they speak to each other for the first time.
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A young trans man and his mother speak about her struggle to accept his gender identity.
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The first rule of the internet: avoid the comments sections. On Conversations with People Who Hate Me, host Dylan Marron breaks that rule.
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Two friends talk after getting into a Facebook altercation about COVID-19.
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A popular writer & vlogger speaks to someone who wrote that they hated him.
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An actor in a viral commercial speaks to someone who called him a "loser"
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A Bernie supporter and an Elizabeth Warren supporter connect after clashing online.
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A "cancelled" journalist speaks to one of the people who joined a pile-on against her.
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Host Dylan Marron shares his TED Talk "Empathy is not Endorsement"
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Dylan speaks to an old classmate from high school.
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Dylan speaks to a stranger who called him a gay slur.
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A celebrated drag queen talks to someone who dragged them online.
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Jesse called Dylan a hypocrite. Dylan admits he may be right.
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Celebrated musician and artist Amanda Palmer talks to someone who tweeted that they hated her.
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Two strangers open up to each other about the divisiveness of saying "Merry Christmas"
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A listener opens up to Dylan about something he hasn't shared with many people.
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Dylan speaks to a listener about their family dynamics.
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Dylan answers listener questions from Kaleb.
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Dylan speaks to someone who really doesn't like this podcast.
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Two friends torn apart by the 2016 election speak to each other for the first time.
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Lauren is afraid Andrew hates her. Dylan connects the two of them on the phone.
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Dylan speaks to a college senior who called his work "nauseating."
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The host of a children's LGBTQ educational web series speaks to someone who thinks the show is harmful to kids.
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Kat and Alvaro discuss the term "Latinx."
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Two strangers talk to each other about civility in the age of Trump.
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A rape survivor speaks to someone who called them a liar.
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Intesar told Dylan "bitch talk about Palestine" so Dylan called him up and they did.
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Two teenagers talk to each other about the state of guns in the United States.
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Alyson anonymously sent herself hateful and homophobic messages online. Dylan Marron asks her why.
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Doug called Dylan a "talentless hack" so they discussed why he wrote that.
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Two strangers talk about the tv show 'The Office.' One thinks it doesn't hold up, the other thinks she should be "burned at the stake" for that opinion.
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Two veterans of the Marines are connected on a phone call. One supports the trans ban, the other recently came out as trans.
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Dylan moderates a conversation between Marcia, a feminist comedian, and Andrew, a man who called her a bigot on the internet.
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To close out this chapter Dylan calls up people who love the show and have used it as motivation for conversations in their own life, including a conservative listener who’s a fan of the podcast. (Thanks for listening, we’ll be cooking up some new...
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Content Warning: This episode contains a conversation about suicide. Dylan calls someone who publicly told him to kill himself and that people like him "deserve to be put on island to die." Conversations with People Who Hate Me is a production of...
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Lee publicly called Dylan a “flaming homo,” a “sissy,” a “flaming queen,” and an “idiot.” The twist? Lee is a gay man himself… with a fascinating life story. Conversations with People Who Hate Me is a production of Night Vale...
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Dylan Marron calls James, a stand up comedian and self-identified troll, who publicly wrote that Dylan was “condescending as f*ck.” James walks Dylan through the difference between a good troll and a bad troll, and his views on comedy....
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Today’s guest not only doesn’t hate Dylan Marron, but at one point in the conversation he says he loves him. So why include this episode as part of the show? Listen to the end to find out why. Conversations with People Who Hate Me is a production...
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“Facts don’t care about your feelings.” At least according to this week’s guest Anna, a school teacher from the south. Listen as Dylan and Anna try to get to the bottom of why they see that catchphrase so differently… and why they both agree...
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Dylan Marron wants to make sure that this isn’t just a “conservative versus liberal” podcast, so this week he speaks with Matthew, a left-leaning queer artist who publically posted that Dylan “represents some of the worst aspects of...
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Dylan Marron talks to Josh, a teenager who told Dylan that he was “the reason this country is dividing itself.” Josh opens up and reveals that high school was hell for him, which means the two might have more in common than they think....
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Dylan Marron makes popular social justice videos on the internet, so he gets a lot of hate messages. In the first episode of this podcast, he speaks with Chris, a man who called Dylan “a piece of sh*t”... among many other things. Conversations...
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Conversations with People Who Hate Me takes hateful conversations online and turns them into productive conversations offline. As a writer and video maker who focuses on social justice issues, Dylan Marron receives a lot of negative messages on the...

Episode 25: I Hope You're Eaten Alive

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October 15, 20181hr 5min

Benjamin was a guest on this show and K is a listener who became so upset by Benjamin’s comments said that she publicly wrote “Ben, if you’re reading this I hope you’re eaten alive by wild dogs.” Dylan connected them on a call for this season’s finale.

Want to be a guest on the show and take your own online conversation and move it offline? Fill out the form at conversationswithpeoplewhohateme.com

Conversations with People Who Hate Me is a production of Night Vale Presents. Credits: Dylan Marron (creator, producer, host), Christy Gressman (executive producer), Vincent Cacchione (audio engineer, mixer), Rob Wilson (logo designer). Theme song: “These Dark Times” by Caged Animals.