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Proxy with Yowei Shaw

Yowei Shaw

Proxy investigates the emotional mysteries that run our lives and world — sometimes by finding someone who gets it, sometimes by reporting from the emotions beat. Hosted by Yowei Shaw, former co-host and editorial lead of Invisibilia.

We’ll be back with new cases this fall — and we’ll be dropping a few treats in the feed this summer. Follow the show so you don’t miss the next case. 

Follow us on Instagram: @proxypodcast @yoweishaw

Get in touch at proxythepod@gmail.com

If you’re new, try: Bisexual Wife Guy, Yowei Can't Speak Bro, or Jane Doesn't Like Her Dogs.

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Proxy investigates the emotional mysteries that run our lives and world — sometimes by finding someone who gets it, sometimes by reporting from the emotions beat. Hosted by Yowei Shaw, former co-host and editorial lead of Invisibilia.

We’ll be back with new cases this fall — and we’ll be dropping a few treats in the feed this summer. Follow the show so you don’t miss the next case. 

Follow us on Instagram: @proxypodcast @yoweishaw

Get in touch at proxythepod@gmail.com

If you’re new, try: Bisexual Wife Guy, Yowei Can't Speak Bro, or Jane Doesn't Like Her Dogs.

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20hr 53min
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May 19, 202651min 51sec138.88 MB
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June 30, 20261hr158.57 MB
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June 16, 202658min 25sec156.7 MB
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June 2, 202650min 53sec123.59 MB
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May 5, 202650min 4sec121.61 MB
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April 21, 20261hr 2min164.44 MB
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April 7, 202640min 21sec98.32 MB
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December 2, 202553min 36sec130.11 MB
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November 4, 202545min 39sec123.97 MB
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October 21, 202541min 55sec102.07 MB
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October 7, 202544min 26sec108.1 MB
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September 30, 202541min 4sec115.12 MB
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September 23, 20251hr158.96 MB
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September 9, 202555min 59sec148.8 MB
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August 26, 202531min 53sec77.96 MB
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August 12, 202537min 5sec90.47 MB
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July 15, 202539min 40sec96.67 MB
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July 1, 202554min 42sec132.75 MB
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June 17, 202551min 49sec125.81 MB
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June 3, 202555min 30sec141.01 MB
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May 20, 202540min 34sec98.81 MB
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May 6, 202544min 49sec109.03 MB
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April 22, 202551min 11sec137.25 MB
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With every layoff, there's the blackbox of what's really going on behind the scenes. Why did it go down the way it did? Was it really not about your performance, like they told you? How does the layoff list get made anyway?   In our inaugural...
May 23, 202446min 19sec127.71 MB
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Yowei Can't Speak Bro

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May 19, 202651min 51sec

The case of the podcast host who can't speak bro.

For the past twelve years, Yowei has been trying — and failing — to have a normal conversation with her husband's best friend. It's not for lack of goodwill. But somehow, every time, they can't find a rhythm. Yowei's theory: he speaks bro, and she doesn't know how. 

In this episode, Yowei finds a proxy bro and gets a crash course in bro banter — the hidden rules and emotional logic behind the joking, shit-talking, and conversations that can last for hours without a single life update.  

From the episode:

— Jason Stewart — podcaster, DJ, and co-host of How Long Gone. Follow him on Instagram and X @themjeans.

— Scott Kiesling — professor of linguistics at the University of Pittsburgh, whose work explores masculinity and how men use talk to build relationships and their identities. Learn more at sfkiesling.com.

New to Proxy? Try Bisexual Wife Guy for a classic case, or The First Ever Extrovert-Introvert Cage Matchforanother case about what happens when friends have different ideas of connection. 

For episode liner notes, show gossip, and dispatches from the emotions beat, get our free newsletter File Under Feelings at proxyhq.org.

Proxy is an independent show, supported mostly by listeners. Paid members get bonus episodes, ad-free listening, live Proxy hangs, and the satisfaction of keeping emotional investigative journalism alive 🍏

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