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Proxy with Yowei Shaw

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It’s the knot you can’t untangle - a problem so specific, it makes you feel alone. But what if you could talk to someone who gets it? On Proxy, we find just the person you were looking for, a stranger who's lived something close enough to help you get a little less stuck. It’s not therapy - it’s emotional investigative journalism™️. Yowei Shaw, former co-host of Invisibilia, at your service.

If you’re just discovering the show, a good place to begin is Bisexual Wife Guy, Mic Chooses the Wrong Life, or Brian Can’t Stop Fact-Checking His Mother-In-Law. 

The team is hard at work investigating another batch of cases, with new episodes publishing in April 2026 🚀

Proxy is an independent podcast, supported mostly by listeners. If you want to help the show keep going, consider joining our Patreon. Membership starts at $5 a month and includes bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and access to our group Zoom hangs. You can also join our Patreon for free to get the newsletter 🍏

Follow us on Instagram: @proxypodcast @yoweishaw

Get in touch at proxythepod@gmail.com

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It’s the knot you can’t untangle - a problem so specific, it makes you feel alone. But what if you could talk to someone who gets it? On Proxy, we find just the person you were looking for, a stranger who's lived something close enough to help you get a little less stuck. It’s not therapy - it’s emotional investigative journalism™️. Yowei Shaw, former co-host of Invisibilia, at your service.

If you’re just discovering the show, a good place to begin is Bisexual Wife Guy, Mic Chooses the Wrong Life, or Brian Can’t Stop Fact-Checking His Mother-In-Law. 

The team is hard at work investigating another batch of cases, with new episodes publishing in April 2026 🚀

Proxy is an independent podcast, supported mostly by listeners. If you want to help the show keep going, consider joining our Patreon. Membership starts at $5 a month and includes bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and access to our group Zoom hangs. You can also join our Patreon for free to get the newsletter 🍏

Follow us on Instagram: @proxypodcast @yoweishaw

Get in touch at proxythepod@gmail.com

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November 4, 202545min 39sec123.97 MB
Thumbnail for "Presenting: Market Failure (with Scene On Radio)".
January 27, 202641min 33sec100.24 MB
Thumbnail for "Presenting: Manifesting: How Powerful Are Our Thoughts? (with Science Vs.)".
January 13, 202632min 58sec84.13 MB
Thumbnail for "Nicole Can't Stop Being Aggro".
December 2, 202553min 36sec130.11 MB
Thumbnail for "Yaroslava Can't Go Home".
October 21, 202541min 55sec102.07 MB
Thumbnail for "The First Ever Extrovert-Introvert Cage Match".
October 7, 202544min 26sec108.1 MB
Thumbnail for "An Estrangement Mystery".
September 30, 202541min 4sec115.12 MB
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September 23, 20251hr158.96 MB
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September 9, 202555min 59sec148.8 MB
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August 26, 202531min 53sec77.96 MB
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August 12, 202537min 5sec90.47 MB
Thumbnail for "Zakiya Used to Be So Fun".
July 15, 202540min 30sec98.65 MB
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July 1, 202556min 30sec137.05 MB
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June 17, 202553min 53sec137.14 MB
Thumbnail for "Is It Time To Break Up the Band?".
June 3, 202555min 30sec141.01 MB
Thumbnail for "Aparna and the Self-Loathing Introvert".
May 20, 202543min 16sec105.32 MB
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May 6, 202548min 8sec129.96 MB
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April 22, 202553min 8sec141.93 MB
Thumbnail for "The Utility of Self-Delusion (and Big Show Update)".
March 19, 202517min 59sec50.06 MB
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The story of someone who suffered alone in secret for 8 years with a problem he was too afraid to Google -  and then he stumbled into a support group. In this episode, we dive into the emotional dynamics of support groups with Jason Yu. Why did...
December 3, 202452min 27sec75.54 MB
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Whoever wins the election, Americans will still want to rip each other's heads off. Social psychologist Jay Van Bavel helps us understand why we should care about polarization, how we got here, and what, if anything, we can do about it.   ...
October 29, 202441min 48sec100.33 MB
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We all know that moment - when you feel like you need to cry in front of other people, but don't want to cry. In this episode, Yowei talks to Heather Christle, the author of , to parse what’s happening in that moment, what tears are saying and how...
September 26, 202424min 28sec35.24 MB
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Finally, a campaign reveal. Did we get additional funding to hire Kim for more hours? Plus, some updates for what’s in store for Proxy.    Episode credits: Produced by  and Kim Nederveen Pieterse Mixed by    Proxy is...
September 5, 20248min 5sec32.7 MB
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The final installment of Yowei's quest to solve the mystery of proxy converations.    In this episode, Yowei talks to a ritual expert and tries explaining what she's learned about proxy conversations to her mom.    From the...
August 21, 202423min 43sec56.93 MB
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Part 3 of Yowei's extremely meta quest to solve the mystery of proxy conversations.    In this episode, Yowei learns about psychodrama, a psychotherapy that has similarities to proxy conversations and used to be a dominant modality in the...
August 15, 202439min 41sec95.24 MB
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Part 2 of Yowei's quest to solve the mystery of proxy conversations. Why do they work?  How? Can Yowei figure out how to explain the show to people who don't get it?   In this episode, Yowei gets advice from actor, comedian, and proxy...
August 6, 202436min 59sec53.26 MB
Thumbnail for "The Incredible Healing Powers of Vicarious Restorative Justice".
Yowei has a problem. She's having trouble explaining the show to people who don't get it. She knows proxy conversations work. But why? How?   Part 1 of a 4-part quest to solve the mystery of proxy conversations. Yowei learns about a proxy...
July 24, 20241hr146.36 MB
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With every layoff, there's the blackbox of what's really going on behind the scenes. Why did it go down the way it did? Was it really not about your performance, like they told you? How does the layoff list get made anyway?   In our inaugural...
May 23, 202449min 39sec47.68 MB
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Please note: This story contains brief mention of suicidal ideation. If you or someone you know may be considering suicide, contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 9-8-8, or the Crisis Text Line by texting HOME to 741741.  ...
May 23, 202441min 54sec56.56 MB
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The Layoff Trilogy 1: Layoff Girl
May 22, 202442min 25sec40.73 MB
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May 15, 20241min 12sec17.31 MB

Bob and the Forgiveness Spell

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November 4, 202545min 39sec

Erin wants to forgive the person she's holding a grudge against, but doesn't know how. Is it possible to just disappear resentment?

If this episode resonates, you might also try Brian Can't Stop Fact-Checking His Mother-In-Law or JC's Kids Won't Talk To Her.

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Proxy is an independent podcast, supported mostly by listeners. If you want to help the show keep going, consider joining our Patreon. Membership starts at $5 a month and includesbonus episodes, ad-free-listening, and access to our group Zoom hangs. You can also join for free to get the newsletter 🍏

Follow us on Instagram: @proxypodcast @yoweishaw

Get in touch at proxythepod@gmail.com

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